So I’m in love with this guy. Like, I’ve-never-felt-this-way-before-think-about-him-all-the-time-can’t-sleep-can’t-eat-writing-my-name-with-his-last-name-giggly-awful kind of love. We got together one night at a party and spent the whole time together and kissed and it was cute and he was so sweet. And I was pretty sure that we were going to be together forever. But we worked on a show together, so I saw him all the time, and after that night he wouldn’t talk to me and he barely will look at me. It’s been over a month since then and my feelings haven’t gotten any weaker. I tired to talk to him at another party, but he was just not having it and I’m not really a super forward person, so I didn’t pursue it. But I don’t know what to do. I’m so uncomfortable with how obvious I’ve made it so far, but I’m not sure if it’s enough, or he just doesn’t care, but I don’t want to go any farther, but he hasn’t done anything and asdfjkl;ljeijowoeifjoia help.
Ben Says: I hate to be a dick about this, but it sounds like he was just looking for a night of fun and games. I’m really sorry that you feel strongly about him, but your best bet would be to just get over him. He’s definitely not worth your time.
Alex Says: Question the man, if he says no, then get over the motherfucker.
In short: He ain’t worth it boo, there are plenty of other guys out there. And we’re not all assholes.